Role Playing

Got me thinking with all this talk about women's rights, feminism, even the so called oppression of Muslim women, well here is a thought.
Why do men always seem to set the standards, towards which everyone seeks to aspire?
A woman who strives to be more like a man, which we are seeing today, is she really more of a "woman"?
is femininity achieved by being more masculine?
Do you see my point, Ive started asking lots of points here, because i just cannot fathom it out.
What are main reason why women feel this burring desire and need to be more like a man? They cannot be they are two completely different sexes.
lets explore crime, war and mayhem. here more men are responsible for this then women, so why be like them or want to be like them?

I think its to do with a lack of self esteem among women. They have come to believe, through might i add ( male dominated ideas) that they are not equal to men. Thus this urge to defeat, beat them. I think its wrong and that can never happen.
If I may, look at Muslim women, here our sisters read alot about the abuse, deg ration/oppression of those women living in the west and the Muslim women speak very concerning about the need for western women to be liberated.
So what we have is one side ie western women and the majority of society saying Muslim women need to be set free and on the other side our Muslim women saying western women need to be set free. Question is  which side is right?